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How to Rebuild Trust in a Relationship

If you've been cheated on by your wife, rebuilding trust is the most difficult phase in the healing process. As you begin rebuilding your relationship, keep in mind all the things you have to gain. People in romantic relationships tend to live longer, have a built-in support system and are happier and more satisfied in life. Having a partner also makes life more fun and enjoyable - you always have someone to watch TV or cook dinner with.

Below are helpful tips for working past your wife's affair and coming to a stage of healing.

Make Communication a Priority

When was the last time that you had a relaxed conversation and really listened to your significant other? The key to a healthy relationship is open, honest communication. Plan a night out in New York and get to know your her again. It can help to get away from the home where the cheating may have occurred. Practice being transparent. This supports the connection with your wife.

Play on the Same Team

You've invested a lot in your marriage. You might have a home in New Jersey, a couple of kids or a dog. Walking away from everything is difficult to do, even when you've been cheated on. Both you and your wife must remember that you're playing on the same team. What's good for one is good for the other. Having this attitude will help ease some of the tensions.

Enlist Help from a Professional

It's not a bad idea to enlist help from a counselor during this time. Sometimes, couples need help making sense of and expressing their feelings. Counselors can be effective for you and your wife separately and also as a couple, so don't hesitate to get the support you need right now. And if you ever feel that your wife could be cheating again, don't find out the hard way. Hire a private investigator in NJ and get the answers you need.

Watch for Signs of Progress

It's hard to forget what happened in the past. But don't let it blind you from the progress that you are making today. Look at you relationship in a present-tense moment. How are things today? Do you feel that communication is more open and honest? Are you happier and more secure in the relationship? Though it's difficult, approaching things from a present-day perspective is the best way to move forward.

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