Think your New Jersey girlfriend is cheating on you and you want to catch her red handed?
There are only two ways you can get the truth. The first is by getting the facts directly from your girlfriend. The second is by catching her in the act or finding proof of an affair. This might not be easy considering women are often better at lying than men.
If you’re having trouble getting answers, even though you just know something's not right, you’re probably best off hiring a private detective. These services are worth every penny because you will have the evidence you need to move on - or end - your relationship.
Before hiring a private investigator, here are a few things you can do to catch your cheating girlfriend. If you are unsuccessful, give All State Investigation a call and let us help!
1. Watch for the Obvious Signs
If you see a change in your girlfriend’s behavior, there’s probably an underlying reason why. Is she dressing better? Working out more often? Getting her hair and nails done?
2. Look on Her Phone
A bit of snooping can tell you a lot. Who has your girlfriend been calling or texting? Does she have a new follower on social media? Erased phone logs and text messages are also warning signs.
3. Drop By Her Workplace
Surprise your girlfriend by dropping by her office unannounced. Does she have a male coworker that she is particularly chummy with? What is her reaction? Is she happy to see you or angry?
4. Follow Her After a Fight
If you get into a fight with your girlfriend, follow her to see where she is going afterward. Often times, cheating girlfriends will pick fights and then storm off to meet their lover.
5. Install Hidden Cameras
Place a spycam in your bedroom or another room where your girlfriend hangs out. Even if she doesn’t bring her lover back to the home, you might be able to catch her texting, talking on the phone or taking pictures.
6. Create a Fake Profile
Make a fake profile on social media or a local app that promotes cheating and see if your girlfriend is on there. If you do find her profile, connect with her and see how she responds.
Discovering that your girlfriend is cheating brings on a lot of emotion, so be prepared for what you find. No matter how “sure” you are that the cheating is going on, it’s entirely different when you see the proof.